What Would Jane Do?

Like Jane Eyre, I have gone through many experiences where I have forgiven those who have wronged me. One time one of my closest friends broke an important promise that had some distressing consequences for me, and I was left in a very difficult position. She apologized and admitted that she was in the wrong, but I was so mad that I thought our friendship was over forever. I’m usually a forgiving person, but this situation was unique, and I didn’t think that I had it in me this time. In fact, a part of me wanted some sort of revenge.

A while later, my friend went through some unrelated things that l knew were very difficult for her, and I knew she needed a friend more than ever. I realized that my desire for her to be happy overpowered my anger and disappointment, and I was able to forgive her, although I stood my ground about the situation. This reminds me of when Jane returned to Gateshead to see her dying aunt. Even after all Ms. Reed had done to her as a child, Jane came to her when she was vulnerable, and she tried to comfort her rather than rub salt in her wounds. Jane was still sure about the fact that her aunt was unfair to her, but she was able to forgive her and move on. She actually pitied her aunt, and wanted her to find solace. I think Jane would have done the same thing if she were in my position because we see her constantly forgiving, not only with her family, but with Rochester as well. She is definitely a very forgiving and selfless character.